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Birth Doula FAQS

What role will my husband/partner play if I have a doula?

A doula does not replace the role the husband or birth partner has a loving support during labor. I will help make sure the partner's needs are met so that the partner can meet the needs of mom. I will give the partner breaks during a long labor. The partner is able to support mom at his/her comfort level and can fall back on me as a resource for giving suggestions and encouragement. Mom and partner also do not have to worry about remembering all that they learn in their childbirth classes. My job is to be a support for both both and partner during this birth journey.

What if I am planning to have an epidural? Do I still need a doula?

Definitely! Since epidurals do not occur till later in labor, I will be a support for early labor and until you decide to get the epidural. Doula support is also more than just pain management. There are still emotions happening about the birth journey. I will provide emotional and informational support for mom and partner. I will also use massage and position change to help keep labor progressing and help with effective pushing.

What if I find out I need a c-section during the last trimester of pregnancy?

I can still provide assistance for you during this stressful medical procedure. I can come to your home the day of your c-section to help you pack and get to the hospital. I can stay with you during the admitting process and help mom relax as she is prepped for surgery. I can be in the recovery room to help make sure she is not in pain ad assist with breastfeeding. I can also keep mom company while dad goes to the nursery to accompany baby. I can stay as long as your family needs me after surgery, typically till transferred to mom's postpartum room.

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